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REFERENCE REQUESTS
KINK INTERESTS
KINK PARTICULARS
LIMITS & BOUNDARIES
PRIVACY

MEETING MOLLY – PROTOCOL

After familiarizing yourself with the information I’ve provided on my website, please submit an application via the Contact page. Make the best first impression you can by being thoughtful and succinct. If our desires align, I will respond to you by email to move forward.

  • I do not discriminate on the basis of identity and am queer-friendly, and eager to meet those who share my passion and diligence regardless of their identity, sexuality, or gender.

  • If I’d like to meet you, I will respond to your inquiry by email– please check your spam folder if you don’t see a response. I can be reached via ProtonMail and Gmail– contact mollyinthemask@proton.me if necessary.

  • After confirming the date, location, and time we are to meet, I will ask that any deposit and fees are fulfilled. Subsequently, we can discuss further details. I will also book our room and confirm where we are meeting, as needed.

  • My rates are listed on my Session pages. All monetary exchange is assumed to be for my time.

  • When I arrive to our rendezvous point, please immediately present my donation in cash, or have it sitting in plain sight. Presenting it in a book or gift bag absolutely wins you extra points. After our relationship is established, I am also open to my donation being sent in advance digitally or via Bitcoin.

  • You should arrive with good hygiene and good manners. If you have any toys or gear of your own that you enjoy, feel free to bring them.

  • I do happily offer phone consultations prior to our meeting, but I do not offer video calls showing my face as there is no way for me to protect from screenshots or recordings.

  • I am rarely available for same-day trysts. Expect an addition to my donation for the rush if requesting one.

  • I am very open to social time outside of our suite or the dungeon during sessions, like dinners or outings.

WHERE ARE YOU LOCATED? WHERE CAN I MEET YOU?

NYC is my home base, but I enjoy getting out beyond the city. All of my travels will be announced via my Newsletter and the top banner of this website.

If you just can’t wait to make my acquaintance, the best way to meet me is a Fly Me to You engagement– read on for more info.

WHERE IS YOUR INCALL? DO YOU DO OUTCALLS?

I host my incalls in upscale hotels for utmost hygiene and convenience– let me know if you have a preference of neighborhoods. I will bring a travel set-up with me. If our engagement suits a proper dungeon setting, that can be arranged just as well. Please specify a preference between the two, or leave it up to my discretion. I will request you add a bit to my donation to cover the bill of either.

For outcalls, I am happy to meet you at your upscale hotel in Manhattan (or whatever city I may be in), or in the greater tri-state area if my travel there and back is covered. I prefer not to meet at private residences for our first encounter.

FLY ME TO YOU

While I do frequently travel for pleasure, the best way to guarantee our paths crossing anywhere in the world is a Fly Me to You. To make this exclusive experience a reality, I require full coverage of my travel and lodging expenses, a deposit, and a minimum of a four hour engagement.

After we finalize the details of our meeting, including the location, date, and duration, I will request a deposit. Upon receiving this deposit and confirming our appointment, I will proceed to organize and book my travel arrangements, unless you are providing a private plane or similar transportation. Additionally, I will secure my own accommodation if necessary.

Once all bookings are complete, I will inform you of the total cost and request that it be sent over. After this payment is made, our arrangements will be fully set and confirmed, and I’ll be on my way when the time comes. It’s that easy.

SCREENING & SECURITY

Sending the screening information I request on my contact form is a standard safety precaution that ensures our mutual security, and is mandatory for any engagement. Much in the same way my identity is verified on my ads, it allows me to verify that you are who you say you are, and that you aren’t a cop or otherwise irredeemable human.

I accept any one of the following options:

  • References: The names, emails, websites, and social media of two reputable independent providers you have seen previously. I will reach out to them via email to verify you are a safe individual who treated them respectfully.

  • ID: A photo of your Government-Issued ID via email (mollyinthemask@proton.me).

  • Employment: Usually must be combined with another option. Please send any one of: Your LinkedIn profile with 500+ connections, work ID/business card, company bio, or profile from well-known official publications (ex. Forbes)

Your information is kept securely within encrypted confines, and is strictly confidential.

I have signed NDAs before and am glad to do so again if given time to review.

DEPOSIT & CANCELLATION POLICY

Deposits amounting to 20-50% of the total donation are preferred for all sessions, and required for all classical domination sessions, and all sessions 3 hours or longer.

I accept multiple avenues for deposits (and cancellation fees), including discrete and non-electronic ones.

  • Always leave the payment description/note blank or use a discrete emoji when sending.

  • My deposit is non-refundable and non-transferable if you cancel or reschedule, but will be refunded or transferred in the rare event I must cancel, unless it is due to rudeness, poor etiquette, or anything that makes me feel unsafe on your part.

  • All avenues apply to the total donation, with the remainder due when we meet, EXCEPT gifts or gift cards, which are considered separate and do not apply.

My cancellation policy applies as soon as we confirm a time & date.

  • If you cancel within 48 hours of our meeting, 50% of the total donation is due as a cancellation fee. This goes up to 75% for cancellations within 24 hours.

  • FMTYs and Touring Dates require a huge amount of tight planning and behind-the-scenes work, and canceling either has a monumentally negative impact on me. Cancellations of FMTY or tour dates within 2 weeks come with a cancellation fee of 50%, and 100% within 1 week.

  • If canceling at all, I recommend sending a gift with the notice to soften the blow and entice me to quickly forgive.

  • If my cancellation fee is not paid, that is a great way to ensure I will not be seeing you or accepting your contact again. It should be paid within 24 hours of cancellation, and is not applicable to another date.

Being respectful of my time ensures the continuation of our relationship.

I am low-volume as I value the quality of my engagements over the quantity, and have an eternally busy schedule. Space and time in my calendar is very limited, and lost when you cancel. When my cancellation fee is fulfilled, that shows you respect my time and are willing to make up what you’ve caused me to lose. When it is not, that tells me you do not respect my time, and that puts an immediate end to our relationship.

COUPLES & DOUBLES

I adore seeing couples so long as both parties are enthusiastically on board, and complete my screening process. Add $500 to my donation.

For duos with one (or more) providers or dommes, I’m similarly amenable. The highest rate is to be matched across the board. Ask about my friends!

If you have another idea in mind for an additional party, like another bull or onlooker, feel free to inquire.

i’ve never done this before!

Don’t fret, I’m more than happy to be your introduction to this world, or to explore a budding fantasy in a space that’s safe and non-judgmental.

If you have a question that isn’t answered on this website, don’t be afraid to ask.

REFERENCE REQUESTS

I am generally open to being used as a reference once for every time we’ve seen each other. You should always ask before doing so, and it’s best practice to show your appreciation for my time.

WHAT ARE YOUR KINK INTERESTS AND SPECIALTIES?

A long list of my favorite kinks, fetishes, and activities to indulge can be found here. I welcome those of all levels of experience.

Additionally, click here for a long yet non-exhaustive list of role-play/scene scenarios I especially delight in.

I have an ever-growing collection of gear and equipment of my own and on my wishlist. Feel free to add to it, inquire, or bring your own if you have something specific in mind.

KINK PARTICULARS

General notes, for those seeking to submit:

  • You may refer to me as Miss, Miss Molly, Mistress, Goddess, Princess, Daddy, and Mommy. I accept other forms of address on a case—by-case basis.

  • We will start our session with a brief greeting, followed by the presentation of my donation and a discussion about our time together, which will be balanced in terms of power unless agreed otherwise. I may change into a more suitable outfit or gear, as needed– I will usually arrive in discrete clothing unless otherwise discussed. I will be attentive to your mental state and comfort from the outset.

  • As needed, we'll go over the details of our session, including any considerations, boundaries, and rules, before beginning our bookended power exchange. Drawing from our prior discussions and your stated interests, I will guide you through our interaction. I will focus on you entirely, gauging your reactions to my actions through your body language, your words, and your engagement with the fantasies we explore. My aim is to help you reach a mental state where you can fully surrender. Aftercare is always included in time with me.

  • I generally recommend a minimum of two hours for our sessions. I may accept shorter engagements for those with specific interests that would better suit a shorter time frame, but for a truly transformative experience, a minimum of 2 (but better 4-6) hours is often necessary.

  • I prep thoroughly for all of my sessions and scenes. However, if our ideas require extensive planning or preparation beforehand on my part beyond my usual, expect additional fees to apply.

  • While not at all required to session with me, I do love taking photos and videos of those who submit to me. If you consent to being photographed (with anonymity preserved or otherwise) during a session, please let me know.

Due to the planning and logistics involved in certain experiences, please note the following for these particular activities.

  • Anal Play – Please clean yourself prior to our meeting with a water enema–happy to give further instructions.

  • Cuckolding – “Full Experience” sessions only. While things like fantasy cuckolding as a hotwife or couples dates where I play a lesbian bull don’t require much beyond my usual process, I do also offer extremely limited opportunities for my stud of a male bull to tag along.

    He is a tall, muscular, hunky, bi-friendly, experienced professional dominant, and can act as a bull and/or double dom/dom couple. Content featuring both of us will be available on my OnlyFans and clip sites, and I am happy to give more information about him after screening.

    A standard deposit and an upfront non-refundable $100 retainer (separate from tribute) is required upon requesting this to demonstrate your intention and respect our time planning. An additional hourly donation ($800 per hour/66% of my donation) for my bull’s time is to be presented on arrival. You are welcome to have him tag along for our full time together, or only part of it.

    You should have flexibility in scheduling as I attempt to align all three of our calendars.

  • Role-Play - When initially inquiring about a scenario, keep it concise. Expecting me to read your novel before we’ve confirmed a date is disrespectful. Once we have confirmed, feel free to expand on any details. Scripts that would require me to memorize them line by line are not appreciated, but I am very open to hearing what you have been fantasizing about, in detail.

  • Outfit/Grooming Requests – Be prepared to cover the upfront cost of any new garments or particular stylings requested if it isn’t already in my closet. If you’d like to see me in something from my wishlist, I’ll be happy to model it for you when I receive it. For heavy rubber, a nominal extra fee will apply.

  • Service Submissives - I accept service submission on a limited basis. Read here for what I seek from those interested.

LIMITS & BOUNDARIES

Please use the allotted space on my contact form to let me know of your hard and soft limits, any physical limitations (allergies, conditions, etc.), and whether or not you can be left with marks.

I heed to "stop", "red", “yellow”, or any indication that you are at your limit, unless otherwise discussed. If you would like to use an alternative safeword, please let me know.

I am not interested in any sort of reckless play, subjecting you to extreme and/or irreversible physical pain/risk/injury, anything further than mild breathplay, mummification & full encasement, emeto & roman showers, administering enemas, and racial humiliation.

I will not play if you arrive intoxicated by any substance. Do not bring drugs with you to our session, or drink to excess in my presence.

PRIVACY

Respect of my privacy is a non-negotiable limit. I handle our time together with utmost confidentiality, and expect the same in return.

If we run into each other elsewhere, our secret is to remain between us. Approaching me in public would be an awkward situation for everyone involved.

To maintain healthy separation between my fantasy and practical worlds, I do not show my pretty face online. The reward of meeting me face to face is reserved for those diligent, chosen few who complete my straightforward booking process.

Do you think that could be you? Submit your application.

Have another burning question you don’t see here? let me know.